I understand that for many of you, choosing to indulge and explore is not only exciting, but can also be a bit daunting. Naturally you have many questions to ask, some personal and some, perhaps a little embarrassing. I have compiled a "frequently asked" list that hopefully covers most, if not all, of your questions from "How much?" to "How far?"Please take the time to have a look through and should you find yourself still in need of more information, please feel free to contact me. Any payment is for time and massage services.
How do I contact you for an appointment?
To make an appointment, please go to my Contact page for my WhatsApp number. Then send me an SMS/text message with your name, race and age for my rates and any other questions not answered on this page.
Will I be covered during the session?
You will be properly draped at all times to keep you warm and comfortable. Only the area being worked on will be exposed.
Do you accept credit cards?
ZAR Cash is the standard accepted form of payment for services from all clients. No euros or dollars accepted!! Payment is due BEFORE the massage session begins. I usually DO NOT have change available, if you give me more than the required amount, i will assume it is a tip. I can no longer accept frozen chickens or turkeys as payment as my freezer is already filled to capacity with such. My apartment is currently too small to accommodate any pigs or cows. Also, the last batch of magic beans I received in payment for my services turned out to be defective. LOL
How far in advance should I request an appointment with you?
An hour’s notice be it a new or an existing client. Same day appointments are best. All my appointments are confirmed an hour prior to your massage session. It is best to request an appointment as soon as you are SURE of the date and time you would like to be seen. You will be asked to confirm your appointment an hour before the appointed time. Please DO NOT REQUEST AN APPOINTMENT UNLESS YOU ARE SURE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO KEEP IT. YOU WILL BE WASTING MY VALUABLE TIME AND COSTING ME MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!
How long are your massage sessions?
I offer 60 and 90 minute sessions.
How old are you?
I am older than I was last year at this time – and younger than I will be next year at this time. Yes, I am older than 18 – so I am of legal age.
Is this a sensual massage?
Well, Webster’s first definition of "sensual" is: "of the body and the senses as distinguished from the intellect or spirit." So from the moment I touch your body, it (by definition) becomes a "sensual" massage. I can however, perform the massage without ever touching your body if you’d prefer. The fact is: I provide a warm, dimly lit room scented with essential oils, soft music and a warm touch. That is, by definition, a sensual massage. If someone offers you a massage which they claim is not sensual, they’re unaware of this definition and - what’s worse - may possibly have taken extreme measures in order to “render harmless” your senses that are engaged.
Must I be completely undressed?
Most massage techniques are traditionally performed with the client unclothed; however, it is entirely up to you what you want to wear. You should undress to your level of comfort. You will be properly draped during the entire session.
Every now and again, i meet potential clients who contact me who are GTBD ("Got To Be Discreet"), I offer my services with a variety of discretion. Levels of discretion are rated from "least" to "most" on a numbered scale from 1 thru 10. Without much ado, i will skip to level 10.
Level 10. When greeted at the door, you and I are both provided with brown paper grocery bags which are then placed over our heads and which are kept in place throughout the entire session.
No names are exchanged and we are each addressed simply as "hey you". All non-essential verbal communication will be via a series of indistinguishable grunts and simple nods of the head.
If I offer you a bottle of spring water to drink after your session, you are also provided a pair of rubber gloves to wear while handling the bottle to prevent you from leaving behind any fingerprints.
All linens used during your session are immediately incinerated at the conclusion of your session to prevent the record of any traces of your DNA.
Payment for your session is made in small, unmarked bills of varying denominations with no record made of serial numbers.
NOTE: If you are concerned about the paper bag disturbing your hairstyle, it can be placed on your head with the opening at the top.
What can i expect from a session with you?
I like to tailor each session to the individual I'm working with --but the essence of the experience is a full-body massage that includes erotic touch. I spend the first half of the session working on your back, your neck, your shoulders, your legs, your feet, relaxing you and paying special attention to any areas that seem to call out for it. I start incorporating sensual touch into the massage after that.
You're welcome to soak it up as a pleasurable experience. I enjoy giving a relaxing massage, and the more you're willing to let go and simply receive, the more sensual the experience.
What can i expect from you as a person?
I am a well spoken, intellectual and qualified ebony masseuse with a very good sense of humor.
I am organized, dependable and reliable. I will always be well groomed and well dressed. The lady you meet one week will be the same lady the next time. I am health and safety conscious and careful of how I treat my body. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or engage in risky behavior. Trust me when i tell you that my bark is worse than my bite!!
What do you expect of me as a client or potential client?
Be respectful, clean, and above all a gentleman. You will find that all these qualities bring out the very best in me. I then want to make you as relaxed and comfortable as possible. This is your time to relax and enjoy a very good relaxing massage.
Mutual respect is given and expected. I am very friendly and comfortable to be with, so you can anticipate an experience you will always remember.
What happens if I am late?
The appointment will start at the scheduled time. Your massage time will NOT be extended if you are late and you will be responsible for the full fee. If you are more than 15 minutes late, I may have to reschedule your appointment or shorten your massage time.
What happens if I don't call to cancel?
Things do happen; all I ask is that you give me a call as soon as possible if you are going to be late or if you can't make it. If you are not here at your appointment time and you did not call to cancel, I will not schedule future appointments with you.
Clients who cancel their appointments giving less than an hour’s notice will not be able to book
future appointments and BLACKLISTED.
What if i get an erection during the massage?
It's perfectly normal for men to get an erection during a non-sexual, therapeutic massage. Some men don't get massage therapy because they worry that they'll get an erection during the massage, but are unable to relax during the massage because of this fear. But there is no reason to be embarrassed. Gentle touch administered to any area of the body
can activate the parasympathetic nervous system and cause a partial or full erection. If you are still worried, you may wear a towel which I'll provide and try to work around it. But please remember, I have seen every size and shape of a man’s body including their penis, so relax and stop fretting.
What type of clients do you prefer to see?
The mature gentleman who is respectful, punctual, and over the age of 40. They arrive to the session at the designated time ,freshly showered if possible and communicating if they will be late or need to reschedule. Clients I tend to attract are Caucasian professionals, businessmen and executives. I am not available to just anyone who would like to meet with me for a massage session.
When will I receive the address to your location?
Please understand that in order to maintain the privacy and safety of my location...I do not give out the address to my location until you have confirmed your appointment with me by Whats App and my address is only sent to you an hour before your appointment.
Do you cater to couples?
No, i do not cater to couples neither do i cater to women, offer yoni massage to women or feel comfortable touching other women. The only time i would ever consider seeing a female client is when they are recommended personally to me by a close friend.
Where will my massage session take place?
Your massage will take place in a warm, comfortable, quiet room. Soft music will be played to help you relax. You will lie on a table especially designed for your comfort.
Why do you require my name, race and age to make an appointment?
I screen all potential clients for safety reasons. This is how I have kept my business safe and discreet for over 12 years. It is absolutely imperative that you send me a WhatsApp with your name, race and age when contacting me for the first time. If you are uncomfortable doing so, that’s okay. It’s your decision and prerogative, but you will NOT be able to complete arrangements for a massage session. Also please be courteous and professional when contacting me. I ignore, delete and block text messages with vulgar, lewd or sexually explicit language. I also ignore messages that are one liners. Please do not write to me using juvenile abbrevations ("texting" language such as "Ur" for Your or "cud u" for could you.) Good first impressions go a long way with me.
Why don't you return my calls or answer the phone?
This is simple phone etiquette, and not difficult to understand. Due to a number of phone calls that are less than serious in nature, I do not answer ANY telephone calls. This allows me more time for those gentlemen who are sincere in their attempts to meet with me. I remember those who have been Rude before and blacklist them, you dont get a second chance, so come correct the first time ! Thanks for asking !
Are your pictures real and recent?
Absolutely. My face isn't shown clearly only for privacy.
Is tipping expected?
I never expect more than the donation, however if you choose to provide additional, it will always be much appreciated.
Are your rates negotiable?
Is this a cash-only transaction?
Cash and credit card is accepted.
Do you screen your clients?
For both our safety and to learn a bit about you, yes. I've had clients who have commented how they appreciate my screening as it makes them more comfortable. Discretion and confidentiality in addition to safety are paramount. :)
Do you see women or couples? No - gentlemen only.
Do you offer BDSM or fetish? No
Do you provide outcalls?
YES, to upmarket hotels only. NO outcalls to homes provided.
Do you have client age preferences?
I do see clients 40 years of age and older .
When are you available?
I am available most week days between midday and 9pm. Appointments outside these times may be possible by ADVANCE BOOKING ONLY. Please note that these are the times when I can be available for appointments rather than sitting around waiting for an email.
If I don’t have any appointments I go out and enjoy my life. So please do give advance notice (at least 3 hours but preferably 24 hours to ensure a booking). Some of my clients book a month in advance to ensure a meeting at their desired time!
How do I book you?
Firstly please take a good look at my website and find out more about me. Then…. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT…. check in with yourself to see how you’re feeling.
If you’re tingling with anticipation, palpitating with delight, sensing that “Yes finally!” you have found that elusive someone who can really give you the sexual and sensual experiences you have longed for… then get in touch! If you are bored or baffled by my website, then I’m probably not the woman for you. If it feels right (or intriguing or different or fun!), the next step is to send me a message. It’s very helpful if you can tell me what you would like to experience, when you would like to meet (date and time), for how long, and where you would like to meet (you come to me or I come to you), and which city you are in. Yes I know it’s a quite a bit of information, but it will save a lot of emails in the long run. Thanks. I like to get to know people a little bit first before confirming a connection. Ideally we will have a telephone chat to see how our desires and expectations align. Same day bookings are usually only available for clients with whom I have met previously. If you are a new client, the anticipation will make our meeting all the sweeter…
Why can’t I phone you?
I prefer to receive communications by email first. I used to publicise my number in a local directory and received many calls from people who didn’t understand what I offer, asked lots of questions rather than reading my website, then didn’t book! As you can imagine it was quite time-consuming and annoying. In order that I keep loving what I do, I favour written communication. If someone can take the time to message me and tell me their expectations and desires then they are more likely to be someone I want to connect with.
Is there nudity in the massage?
Yes, you will be nude during the massage.
Can I shower at your place?
Yes there is a shower facility here. Please note that shower time is also within the session time. It’s ideal that you arrive clean and fresh so it doesn’t eat into your time receiving loving touch. Understandable if you would like to shower afterwards to remove the oil from your body.
What kind of oil do you use for massage?
I use organic coconut oil or hemp oil which feels silky, is good for your skin, and has a light natural fragrance (it also tastes yummy should I decide to nibble you!) We only use the best quality oils for your massage. They are non-scented and very easily absorbed into your skin leaving you soft and smooth. As you relax after your massage with a glass of chilled water, we will towel you down with clean, soft and fluffy towels to remove any excess oil and to leave your skin feeling fresh and tingly.
Do you offer prostate massage?
If this is something you would like to explore then I am happy to offer during longer sessions (90 mins and upwards). It is not an automatic feature of the massage although I may check in with you during our session if it feels appropriate.
What are your boundaries?
Why thank you for asking! I never make promises around specific SERVICES. With me you are investing in an EXPERIENCE of love, sensuality, intimacy, pleasure, spirituality, self-expression, play, fun and a whole lot more besides. First and foremost I am a woman, therefore I like to be treated with respect and love. If you approach me in this way then a lot is possible within our sessions (and within the parameters of the type of session you have booked).
I have a rather unusual fantasy/request/problem/situation, can you help me?
My passion and mission in life is to support people in the fullest expression of their sensual and sexual selves. Asking for what you really want or seeking help for a sexual challenge can be a really big step. So I honour your desire and your situation, and applaud your courage in voicing it. So ask me! If it’s not appropriate for me to connect with you then maybe I will know someone better suited to your particular requirements. If it is appropriate for us to connect, then it could be the beginning of a beautiful journey.
Do you have any age restrictions?
I will not see anyone under the age of 40 years old. With that being said I really prefer the company of gentleman 45 and over. However, I will not decline to see a gent who is younger than 40 as long as he is respectful and discerning.
Do you have a race restriction?
No, I do not have a restriction on any race as long as you are a gentleman and can provide screening info I have no issues.
Why won't you answer anonymous numbers or confirm my appointment without a contact number?
Over the years we have found that calls from blocked or anonymous numbers are invariably requests for services we are not happy to offer.
We appreciate you may be nervous and concerned about divulging your number to us, however we never contact you without your permission.
We require your number for confirmation of a booking for several reasons....Should we need to cancel or change your appointment, we can let you know, thus saving you the time and effort of travelling to us unnecessarily. We also text you our address details and request that you call or text us upon arrival so we know you're here and can prepare for you.
I'd love to have a massage, but my budget is restricted. Do you offer any discounts?
We are constantly researching and checking our pricing in an effort to provide you with the best service at the best price. Like any professional business however, we have over-heads and costs to cover. On occasion we have special offers available to enable you to benefit from our services at a reduced rate. We advertise these on our web-site.
Are you happy to see/massage people of different nationalities and cultural backgrounds?
Of course. Over the years, we've been fortunate enough to meet people from all over the world. We are happy to meet you whatever your nationality, religion or beliefs.
We believe that we are all sensual beings and encourage everyone to explore both their physical and sensual self.
We never discriminate against colour, size, age or physical/mental ability, so please feel at ease when enquiring about your naturist massage experience.
I can't find any "Testimonials" from existing clients on your web-site...do you have any?
We receive a large number of texts, emails and phone calls from clients who've enjoyed their massage experience and we are always grateful for any comments and feedback.We have decided not to show our clients comments on the web-site for a very simple reason. The very nature of our business requires for absolute discretion at all times and naturally, clients prefer not to have their names, emails etc published for all to see. With this in mind, the authenticity of any comments we may publish cannot be verified by people visiting the site and therefore have no real value to other potential or existing clients. We prefer for you to make up your own mind and have produced a range of in-house videos of us performing a variety of sensual massages that we hope are testimony enough.
If you come to my hotel, what happens?
If you would like me or me to visit you at your hotel, I will arrive discretely and go straight to your room, unless you request otherwise. Your massage can be performed on the bed, the floor or a massage table can be brought along for you. I will also bring all you may need including oils, towels, candles and music etc should you require them. Obviously I'll require your hotel address and room number in order to meet you.
Do you have a minimum or maximum age for your clients? Will you see disabled people?
For legal reasons, we do have to enforce a minimum age of 40 for our clients. We have no upper age limit however and are happy to massage you however senior you may be in years. We are always happy to hear from people who, for one reason or another, are less able than others, and though we have limited disabled access for wheelchairs, we will endeavour to accommodate your needs as best we can. All we ask is that you are able to get on the massage table...we are happy to assist if need be.
I'm/we're very nervous. This is my/our first time. What happens during the massage?
For most people I see, this is the first-time that they've ever done anything quite like this. I have seen many people over the years and treat everyone with respect and understanding, regardless of your requirements or experience. You will be made to feel comfortable and relaxed and everything proceeds at a pace set by yourself. You will enjoy a full-body massage. If you're visiting me, I will meet you in the car-park and escort you into my property giving you the chance for a quick chat and to relax in my company before we enter my retreat for your session. If I'm visiting you either at your hotel for the first time, I like to have a brief chat over a drink so we can get to know each other a little before starting your massage. If I have travelled a fair distance, I may wish to shower quickly before starting the session.
I'm/we're very mature (over 60), can I/we still enjoy your massage services?
Of course you can. Im happy to indulge you whatever your age, size or status. I understand that we all need to enjoy sensual and intimate contact and company however "old" we may be. I do not judge people on how they appear on the out-side, it's what's inside that's important and I appreciate your need for intimacy and relaxation is as strong as ever.
If you have read to the end of this FAQ then you are exactly the kind of client I appreciate connecting with. Be sure to mention this in your message to me for an extra warm welcome.